Today, I just want to point out the major problem in our relationships as significant others of our men in the service: lack of communication. This is the fatal flaw. Well, it's a flaw, but it doesn't have to be fatal. I think most of the conflicts between my soldier and I arise when we haven't been in touch. Once you get used to the idea of your beloved being gone, it's easy to get caught up in the demands of your own life, and he gets caught up in the demands of his. It's easy to start leading different lives and unknowingly start down different paths. I know it's frustrating and sometimes you just want to scream, cry, and be rid of the trials the Military can put you through. Just remember, the distance can also be a blessing. You don't take your man for granted. You cherish every moment he is there with you. Every time you meet after a long time apart, it's like falling in love all over again. It's like experiencing your first kiss over and over. It doesn't get boring because there is always something new to learn about him. You are both changing, working hard to balance your lives, and something makes you cling together. Something makes you want to stay with this almost-stranger. What is it that you're sticking around for? Whenever you feel down, just focus on that. Focus on all his habits you miss. The wait is entirely worth it.
For those romantics out there, check out this song. I think it says it all.
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